If You do not want it.....

If you do not want to do it, do not do it.
If you are going to do it, do it well. You cannot toe on the mid line. There is no middle ground. you are either in or out and not half in or out.
If you do not like it, and you can change it, by all means change it. If you cannot change it and you do not like it, well, by all means, walk away if you can. If you cannot, put up with it.
If you are tired, take a break. if you cannot take a break...still take a break. You are no good to the world if you are all run down and malfunctioning as if that is your best.
If you want it, you get it. If you don't want it, don't go for it. It's not hard really. There is no gray area. It's all black and white. You either are making every effort to get it as much as you want it or you are wishing for it to somehow gravitate towards you, even in the absence of effort.
If you have no more tears to shed, it's OK. It means, there is nothing to cry over.
If you do not want it, say no.
If you want it, say yes.