Well, this is delayed. It is a little bit behind schedule, but the good news is that it is here now.
Well, I am convinced without a shadow of doubt that you have been anxiously waiting for the other shoe to drop. Well, look no further. Dreams come true and right here, right now, the shoe is dropping. The other shoe.
The thoughts contained here are that of the author and by no means gospel truth. This is my opinion. My observations. My thoughts. My musings. So hear me. See me.... Judge silently.
By the look of things, females have more categories than their counter parts.
Dear females, this is a shout out from a female person too, who has seen, heard and maybe (no disclosure here) identifed, identifies and will identify with these various prototypes. Please note that given the complexity of the female mind, these prototypes can, may and do coexist in an individual at any given time.
Let's dive in, shall we?
To begin our hail mary, it is worth everything to start off with with the Flirt. She is dangerously aware of her feminine powers and takes advantage of the power of seduction.... almost too literally, without second thought. She entices the victim, without anything to offer them, but to make a name for herself. She makes the guy think he is special, but he is just another number on the list. The males are numbers, trophies, and nothing more. She aims for those with the body and the looks of a magazine cover model. All for nothing. All for a tally mark on her wall.
Then, we have the string - alonger. Unlike the flirt, she does not conquer for conquering sake. It is not a momentary victory. It is a dragged out one. She makes the guy think he won the jackpot. Not that she is a jackpot. She just makes the guy think he is a lucky man. Alas. He is a place holder till someone better waltzes in. He is stringed along literally. And he complies.
The charity queen is so nice. Really, she is so nice, she is a victim of her niceness. Others maybe say that she is just a kind soul...... Oh well. She makes stupid mistakes because she is too nice. Too nice, nobody listens to her opinion or objections because she wants what is best for the other. In this equation, she does not exist. She is a little short of being a fantom. A convenient fantom. She is always there. Like a bird with wings but it never learnt to fly. This one, will be with a man out of pity. Enough emotion, enough strings pulled, enough buttons pressed, appealing to her kind nature make her a victim. In the beginning, she is a victim. Later, it becomes a choice. A who - she - is kind of thing. To break free, she will have to give up being nice.
Up next, we have our avenger. The avenger has a lot of garbage from the past. Her previous relationships and experiences dictate how she treats the members of the male species. Essentially, she has ex-boyfriend drama, daddy drama, and all kinds of drama. She makes people pay, and pay they do. She has no intention of anything serious. It is just to hook the guys and rip out his heart, chopping it to pieces.
I forgot the special name I gave this group. The ones who are in charge of the relationship. The guy thinks he is in charge but she really is. For convenience's sake, we will call her the Butcher.... Bad name, but hey, don't blame me. The butcher slays males. She finds a docile lamb and butchers him. How? Well, I am glad you asked. You see, she is an alpha. She is in charge and she rules the guy. He cannot say anything about anything. She is the female version of the abuser...... Emotional, physical.
We also identify the group of females who know how to live off of a male. They are like parasites. I don't know if they are symbiotic or not but they are parasites either way. They are with a guy for convenience. They will use him for whatever need they have. What need or want, we will leave that up to your imagination. They suck the male dry, then they move on.
The docile lamb wants a rescuer. She jumps through hoops just for his approval. She has no sense of worth of her own. She has no mind of her own. Her life is his life. She will do anything for his approval. The subset of these is the females who have never been single. Always hooked. The hooked don't know who they are without a male. They don't know what to do with themselves without a male. They are just like the docile lamb.
Let us move on to my all time favourite. We will call her the beautiful dreamer. She is powerful and she knows it. She is independent and she knows it. She is driven, and she knows it. Every thing is in place, except for one..... Yup, you are following. You are spot on... The male factor beyond friendship is never in place. Why? She is an alpha as well but she is a dreamy alpha. She has an ideal which cannot be satisfied by any male in real life. She may have a few relations but they don't last. I mean a guy can only keep up for so long. No male ever measures up for long in her books. Hence, the beautiful dreamer is always alone. Waiting. Waiting. And waiting for the male with the x-factor.
Very close to the dreamer is the nonchalant. She knows that males have their rights to hunt, and she has her right to run. The hunted and the hunter. She knows what she wants. She knows how to recognise trouble and make sure that she doesn't encourage it any more than necessary. Hence the nonchalance. She is nice to everyone. She has no favourites. Or does she? I think nonchalant is complicated.
In her complicatedness, she thrives and becomes nonchalant when she meets the one. She knows when to stay and when to walk away. Maybe instead of nonchalant she is better off called the gem?
Next up is playing hard to get and the thrill of the chase.
So long.
